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Superior trainings, intellectually and personally. Well-studied information, taught in order, with real practice. No fluff, and no magic bullet.
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Meet Kathleen
I train therapists to work with people who have trauma, and I take care of the therapists while they learn. I’ve been doing this work since 2001, and I keep adding new skills. What you see is what you get.
Why I do this
Working with people who have trauma is hard work for therapists. We need exceptional trainings, and we need encouragement and support as we learn and apply new things with our clients. We constantly need new information. And we need compassion, too.
I like people. I like teaching and seeing people learn. But learning is hard. We need more than facts. Some of the most important learning is about how to value yourself and love others. We need solid, well-studied information, and then we need caring as we take it in and figure out how to use it.
“I want to teach you new information. And I want to support you as you use it.”
Kathleen
What I love most is the aha moment: the second a therapist realizes they can do this, and that they matter. That’s the whole job, right there.
My story
Before I was a therapist, I was a teacher. Everything I do in a training room comes from that.
Two master’s degrees in education
I earned an M.Ed. in Learning Disabilities and Emotional Handicapping Conditions and an M.Ed. in Counselor Education, and I taught. I learned how to build a lesson, run a room, and make sure the quiet kids got as much as the loud ones. Later I spent more than ten years teaching health care professionals at Duke Medical Center.
A clinician since 2001
I became a therapist in 2001 and ran my own practice in Chapel Hill for more than two decades, working with trauma, relationships and attachment, and with people who have ADD and other learning differences. I no longer see therapy clients. These days, every hour goes to therapists.
Training therapists since 2012
On day one of my own EMDR Basic Training, I met Liz. We practiced on each other, became lifelong friends, and started training therapists together in 2012. I’m now an EMDRIA Approved Trainer and Approved Consultant, and I’m still adding tools: EFT, EFIT, EFFT and IFS certification, nature therapy, DBT.
Credentials
I take my role as educator and consultant very seriously. I offer strongly developed classes, and I keep training so I have more to give you. Here’s what backs that up.
I also volunteer with the Learning Disabilities Association. Learning differences are close to my heart.
What guides me
Superior trainings, intellectually and personally. Well-studied information, taught in order, with real practice. No fluff, and no magic bullet.
To teach therapists while making them feel seen and understood. You should leave with a deeply felt sense that you matter.
We are whole, interwoven people living in families and communities. Learning is nuanced and interwoven, too. Turn to each other, and to the Earth.
Learning takes as long as it takes. I’m here for the beginning, middle and end of your career, and for the good, the bad and the long haul.
The human side
I love to be outside and to hike. I have a lavender garden and I’m still learning how to garden; it’s fun, and I kill about as many plants as I save. So I am learning to have a sense of acceptance and patience.
I paint, and I’m part of a poetry class. I dance, too, including hip-hop with teens, veterans and young adults. I have an enormous family, and I try my best to make each youngen think I love them best of all. I’m blessed with many friends, and each one is vitally important to me. I work at being a very good friend.
I’m smart, warm, funny, a bit of a leprechaun, and a bit of a pain in the neck. No one is a stranger. And I mean business.
“Slow people down. Help them turn to each other and the Earth, and to know they are unique and have something to offer to others.”
Questions about a training, consultation, or whether you’re eligible? I answer my own email.
The Lavender Letter
An occasional note from Kathleen with one EMDR teaching tip, upcoming training dates, and a little news from the garden. Seats are limited, and subscribers hear first.
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